2.2.24 Adventure DeVoes Adventure

We did it! We counted down the days and made it to the day. We packed up Aimee’s entire world, transplanted her a few hours south for a 2 night stay, and then safely returned her to her original location. Whew. 

The trip went so beautifully well. Much better than I could have hoped. It was quite a feat and I am really proud that we were able to do it, with major help from Ed’s parents. The palliative/hospice team was just in awe. They have never had any families do this trip before and Aimee is their most overall complicated patient. 

Aimee did incredible, especially on the first night. She was even smiling with the excitement of our arrival there and enjoyed time by the pool. The younger 4 spent every possible moment having fun making memories. They played in the water for hours, played games, and spent Christmas money on souvenirs. The staff was truly accommodating, kind, and helpful in every way possible. Most of all, the delight of packing up everyone for a family trip… it was a treasured gift. 

Ed and I did have a major concern while we were there about drainage and redness at Aimee’s central line site. It cropped up the second night we were there and gave us quite a scare. We decided that, if at all possible, we should avoid changing the dressing while we were in such a public setting. We had plenty of supplies with us to do a dressing change and we thoroughly cleaned all the surfaces that touched her supplies, but changing the central line dressing must be done so carefully. Everyone in the room has to wear a mask and we have to be as sterile as we can. Waiting until we got home to change the dressing has probably prolonged the irritation at the site, but I think it may have prevented a more serious infection. Thankfully the drainage stayed minimal. We are seeing some improvement there, but it still doesn’t look as pristine as we like to see. 

Here is a little photo dump of our adventure. 

1.19.24 Daring Endeavor

We have an exciting tidbit to share with you. Our main gift to the kids for Christmas (with the help of the hospice foundation) is… a family trip. 

You read that right. Yes, it is absolutely wild and daunting that we are even willing to consider it, yet it feels like a right choice to make right now. In the early summer of 2021, just a few weeks before Aimee’s spinal fusion, we took the family away for 3 nights to an airbnb just 10 minutes from our house. It was a delight and we all hold that time as a special memory. This will be a much more challenging trip, but we think we can do it. We hope that we can do it. 

We tried to consider what we could possibly do as a family that would have a big impact, but also have everything contained in one building and be financially possible. We settled on Great Wolf Lodge with its indoor water park and onsite food options. A location where no matter how Aimee is feeling, everyone can be in the same building. The staff there have already been incredibly accommodating of all of our needs for power and room rearrangement. 

I will come back with an update soon, but wanted to share a piece of positive news with everyone. Please pray that all goes well. We have so much help to make this happen, including a friend milking the cow, our niece feeding animals, hospice smoothing the way for accommodation of our medical equipment, funding, and Ed’s parents are going to come help us haul a trailer of Aimee’s furniture/supplies. It has been a feat to even get to this point and we haven’t even packed yet! Loading up this intensive care unit and taking it to another location for 2 nights with be a major endeavor. Pray for us. Really could you? We are so hopeful that this can be a special and delightful memory for our kids of our whole family together on an adventure.